HELP with S and N tiles in photoshop

Hello everyone
ok where do i start..well yous have seen some of my work but i never really understanded the N and S tiles..
and i am going to say i really am a Noob when i comes to working on photoshop doing these tiles,
when people say do this do that, then i am knacked to be honest..i find it very hard to understand it..
I can not do the S tile file to take out the shine !
and also find it hard for N tile..
So what i am asking can someone PLEASE do a step by step pic guide on the above tiles s/n how to remove shine
also i see saying about adding alphas..plus it needs to be in english
i think i have lost alot from my memory, because even the simple things as gone..so much worry going on in the real life world due to family illness..
i made this once over, but i have now been told its wrong, if someone can make it this way step by step
showing the right way to remove shine and working with the settings for N and S, i have seen a red color on youtube
but can not see how to do it.
http://tm.mania-exchange.com/threads/24 ... le?page=-1
sadly i can not pay yous any money, but can offer planets !
ps
once over i joined here way back in 2011. and after the creative closed i forgot about this site after my hard drive crashed
and found alot of my friends left TM and never came back, so my helpers i lost forever..my last mod was to be the very last one, and for me to stop making them forever "loire valley" but i have many ideas in my head, things i would love to try but i can not do it, well finish them due to the lack of understanding the S file and N, its a shame if you only had to mod the D file lol...
Loire Valley was released but its not right ! and i hate it, because i can not fix
ok where do i start..well yous have seen some of my work but i never really understanded the N and S tiles..
and i am going to say i really am a Noob when i comes to working on photoshop doing these tiles,
when people say do this do that, then i am knacked to be honest..i find it very hard to understand it..
I can not do the S tile file to take out the shine !
and also find it hard for N tile..
So what i am asking can someone PLEASE do a step by step pic guide on the above tiles s/n how to remove shine
also i see saying about adding alphas..plus it needs to be in english
i think i have lost alot from my memory, because even the simple things as gone..so much worry going on in the real life world due to family illness..
i made this once over, but i have now been told its wrong, if someone can make it this way step by step
showing the right way to remove shine and working with the settings for N and S, i have seen a red color on youtube
but can not see how to do it.
http://tm.mania-exchange.com/threads/24 ... le?page=-1
sadly i can not pay yous any money, but can offer planets !
ps
once over i joined here way back in 2011. and after the creative closed i forgot about this site after my hard drive crashed
and found alot of my friends left TM and never came back, so my helpers i lost forever..my last mod was to be the very last one, and for me to stop making them forever "loire valley" but i have many ideas in my head, things i would love to try but i can not do it, well finish them due to the lack of understanding the S file and N, its a shame if you only had to mod the D file lol...
Loire Valley was released but its not right ! and i hate it, because i can not fix